We are proud of our overwhelmingly
positive reviews on Wedding Wire and Gigmasters.


We've also received some wonderful personal testimonies form past clients.


BHTM played at our wedding last week and they blew us away in every way possible! They are talented, fun, energetic, and kept the dance floor packed the entire night. BHTM was a delight to work with. They were extremely accommodating and made every effort to create an amazing experience for us all. Paul (the manager/guitar player) worked with us several months in advance to iron away every possible detail. He even stepped in to help (in a BIG way) with last-minute issues with the ceremony sound system! This band not only has a vast and impressive repertoire, but offered to LEARN new songs for us. And they knocked them out of the park! What a night! Thanks BHTM!!

Jose R.


The band was an amazing addition to the wedding. They were enthusiastic, talented and kept the dance floor packed throughout the night. They read the crowd and knew when to speed it up and slow it down to keep the night alive and fun! They were incredibly helpful in planning with us before the date to know what our vision was, the mood we were going for and particular songs that we wanted played. They also had great suggestions for songs I never would have thought of that were perfect for the wedding. They even offered to learn songs that may not have been on their play list and learned them well. Overall, the band really rocked and added energy and fun to an amazing weekend. I would recommend them to anyone looking for a wedding band that plays a wide breadth of music well, works with you to tailor the evening to your needs and reads a crowd to maximize everyone's enjoyment.

Rachel and Mike L.


I'm so glad that I picked Better Her Than Me as my wedding band. They are professional and flexible, they took time to learn my first dance song and their performance blow out my mind. My first dance song needs to combine two songs together and they played it just the way I wanted and even better. Their music are great to dance to, all of my guests had such a good time and especially my dad. I would recommend Better Her Than Me to any couple or company if you're looking for a band for dance or just simply can give you a good time on your event. Your guests won't be disappointed, and they will definitely stand up and dance.

Nan Q.


From the moment we stepped out onto the dance floor for our first dance until the final note of the closing song we and our guests couldn't stop dancing and smiling thanks to BHTM. Better Her Than Me turned planning the music for our event from a stressful experience into a dream. BHTM made it incredibly easy for us to share our thoughts on their song list to create the perfect musical score for our wedding. They were also incredibly flexible and were willing to learn new songs that we wished to hear at our wedding. They also gracefully accepted changes to the reception schedule, to the order of songs and helped out with last minute ceremony requests.

Judith P.


A fantastic band! We hired BHTM for a 60th birthday party. Terrific performers! I would hire them again - and again. The guest can't stop talking about them.

Scott M.


Paul, I had a great time working with you on this event!! We have received nothing but positive feedback from our clients and they were extremely impressed with your performance. In the six years I have been hosting these receptions, this is honestly the first time I have seen dancing at one! Please extend my appreciation to the entire band for their outstanding talent. I definitely will recommend your band to my friends in the future and I will be glad to be in your business reference. I look forward to having another opportunity to work with you again in the future and know that I have nothing but good things to say about the BHTM!! 

Autumn C.


What a wonderful band! Professional and lots of fun. Everyone who attended enjoyed them very much. (5 Stars)

Dana W.

BETTER HER THAN ME was great! They really kept the party going. They were a lot of fun and just a cool group. Can't wait to have them back again.

Fred P.

This was the fourth time that we have hired BETTER HER THAN ME for an event and they never disappoint! Once again, they got everyone up and dancing and gave the whole day a truly rockin' vibe! Paul is fantastic to work with -- our fundraiser turned from an outdoor "carnival" setting to an indoor event literally overnight (with monsoon-like conditions outside) and the band could not have been more accommodating. Truly, a great group of professionals!

Laura A.

This band was completely amazing. My whole family danced and no one got off the dance floor for the entire wedding! I have been to so many weddings were people just stood around and watched, but not mine. This band had everyone on their feet and the music was terrific! We had so much fun!! I highly recommend this band, they made my wedding reception the best!!! They even allowed me to choose the set lists from their very long list of songs. My husband (fiance at the time!) and I had no trouble picking the set lists, there were so many great songs that we loved! And they even added a song just for us! They were so incredible to work with. Hands down, the easiest vendor. And for the day of my wedding, I didn't have to think of a thing, they took care of themselves and were so polite and attentive. Great people to have at the wedding, and I think that is so important. It is weird to have strangers at your most important day, and this group felt like family. Thank you so much!!!

Marisa & Jason W.


The band was the best. They absolutely made our daughter's wedding party a great success and had everyone dancing all night long. They were very accomodating of song requests and have a huge array of songs. They are enthusiastic, fun and very talented. Everyone had a fantastic time. We would definitely hire them again!

Linda S.

BETTER HER THAN ME is a blast! We've hired them for a few of our parties and each time, the dance floor was rocking! Their set list keeps everyone from 10 - 90 on their feet! Look forward to working with them again soon!

Michael H. and Laura A.


We love Better Her Than Me!!  They played before our wedding and just recently at our anniversary party.  They are always the best, high energy and great at getting the crowd out on the dance floor.  They have a fantastic variety of songs and are super-accommodating about playing what you want for your party.  We can't say enough good things about the band.  If you're considering them, book them; you won't be disappointed!!

Rachel and Mike L.


Better Her Than Me recently performed at our mother's surprise birthday party.  They were truly amazing and everyone had such a great time.  We had a very wide age group (ages 1 to 75+ years old) and they had everyone up dancing!  They were extremely easy to communicate with about the venue and song preferences.  The band members themselves all looked like they were having a good time as well.  All of the guests remarked on how good the band was.  I would recommend Better Her than Me to anyone looking for a lively, friendly and fun group to get everyone on the dance floor.

Andrea G.


Better Her Than Me was an exceptional band that was easy to work with and the life of our fundraiser.  They were outstanding at recognizing the mood of the crowd and playing to it.  The crowd spent a significant amount of their time dancing, which is a testament to their ability.  I highly recommend them and hope to have them perform for us again in the future.

Samuel B.


Better Her Than Me brought the mood, the groove, and the rockin' tunes to this reunion!  This clean-cut group could not have been any easier to work with in preparation to the event.  Their dedication and musical talent was exceptional, and the band proved to be the life of the party.  This group has the competence to acclimate their musical style to any group or setting.  Having always portrayed themselves appropriately and with a professional demeanor on and off stage, there is no hesitation to bring Better Her Than Me back for future events.

Gage G.


My entire experience with Paul and the whole Better Her Than Me band was fantastic from the initial phone conversation through the event itself. Paul coordinated with me to ensure that the set list matched the feel and flow of our event, and he was able to help me consider aspects of the evening that hadn't even crossed my mind, and were definitely smoother for his advice. He was extremely accommodating of our needs, and this is all to say nothing of the talent of this band--they were awesome!! Our guests all had a blast, and many of them requested the band's contact info for their own future use! I would book them again in a heartbeat.

Amy H.


Perfect! We hired BHTM for our wedding, then hired them back for our anniversary! Our guests loved them and so do we! They are a fun, professional, and talented group of people! We could hire them again and recommend them to anyone looking to make their party or event one to remember! 

Nicole O.


This is the second year in a row we used Better Her Than Me for our Reunion event, and they were just as great as the year prior! This group has a way to connect to all age groups through their music and really get the crowd on the dance floor. We look forward to booking them again in the future and highly recommend BHTM for any of your own events!

Gage G.

I would highly recommend booking this band. Paul was extremely easy to work with, they learned the songs that I requested, and gave a great performance. I would not hesitate to book them again.

Stephen P.

If you are looking to hire a wedding band, let me just say this. So much goes into planning and preparing for your big day, but it goes by so quickly, almost in a blur. Amongst the blur, you will have some amazing details that shine through and make the day feel perfect. ‘Better Her Than Me’ was one of those amazing details for me.

Before I get into their performance, I would just like to say that communication with the band, both far in advance and in the days leading up to our wedding, was excellent. Paul was always quick to respond and clear on what the details the band needed to perform their best. There are so many little things you need to figure out with a wedding, but Paul made booking the band and preparing for the reception a piece of cake. I really didn’t have to worry about a thing.

As for their performance, ‘Better Her Than Me’ totally surpassed my expectations! I really could not have asked for anything more. I was worried that our families and friends were not big dancers, and there would be few people on the dance floor, but I was totally wrong! Every single person was moving and smiling and laughing and just having a fantastic time! There was even a point where one of my friends was lifted on top of the crowd! I may be a bit biased, but it was honestly the funnest wedding I have ever been to, and BHTM played a big part in that.

In summary, this band is amazingly fun and talented, and their communication was terrific, and I just overall cannot say enough positive things about them. Thank you ‘Better Her Than Me!’ You killed it!

Daniel D.

Better Her Than Me was amazing! They were so much fun, and their energy and excitement on stage was palpable. We’ve had so many friends and family members comment on how much they enjoyed this band, and of course, my husband and I could not have been happier. I hope we get to see them play again! Thanks so much BHTM!

Chelsea G.

Perfect experience. No problems, super-professional and incredibly entertaining. They were great!

Weylin S.

Paul was a pleasure to work with. The band arrived on time and followed the schedule we had outlined. Our guests enjoyed the entertainment and we received all positive feedback. We would highly recommend Better Her Than Me.

Cynthia N.

Great Band!!! Paul was a pleasure to work with, everyone was very professional, members and guests had a ball....FUN NIGHT!! Thank You Better Her Then Me!!!

Lorelei G.

They were easy to work with from start to finish. They were happy to learn requests and they were interactive and fun at the party. Really great people.

Patricia M.